What to Wear for Your Engagement Session (and What to Avoid)
Your engagement session is such a special moment
— a chance to celebrate your love, capture your connection, and create beautiful memories before your big day. One of the most common questions I get is: What should we wear? What you wear plays a huge role in how your photos turn out, so I’m here to share my top tips on what to wear (and what to avoid) to make sure you look and feel incredible.
What to Wear
1. Choose Outfits That Reflect Your Style
Your engagement photos should feel like you. Whether you’re casual and laid-back or more classic and elegant, wear something that truly represents your personality and the vibe of your relationship. When you feel authentic, it shows in the photos.
2. Coordinate, Don’t Match
Instead of wearing matching outfits, aim for complementary colors and styles. Pick a color palette of two to three tones that look great together without being too “matchy-matchy.” Think soft neutrals, earthy tones, or pastels — whatever fits your style and the season.
3. Consider the Location and Season
Where your session takes place can guide your outfit choices. If you’re shooting in a park or rustic outdoor setting, flowy dresses, light fabrics, and natural tones work beautifully. For urban or more formal locations, you might want something dressier or with structured pieces. Also, consider the weather — layers and textures can add depth and interest.
4. Keep Accessories Simple
Let your love be the focus! Simple jewelry, subtle belts, or a great pair of shoes can add polish without stealing the spotlight. Avoid anything too flashy or noisy (like clunky bracelets or oversized hats) that might distract.
5. Prioritize Comfort
You’ll be moving around, sitting, walking, and maybe even dancing. Wear clothes and shoes you feel comfortable in so your natural joy and connection can shine through.
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What to Avoid
1. Overly Bright or Neon Colors
Bright reds, oranges, or neon shades can be distracting and might not photograph well. They can also reflect color onto your skin, creating odd tones in photos.
2. Busy Patterns and Logos
Bold prints, stripes, large logos, or busy patterns can pull attention away from your faces and the emotion of the moment. Opt for solid colors or subtle patterns instead.
3. Too Much White or Black
While white and black can be classic, wearing all white might blend into certain backgrounds (like a bright beach), and black can sometimes lose detail in photos or feel too harsh. If you love these colors, break them up with other tones or textures.
4. New or Uncomfortable Shoes
Trust me, blisters are not romantic. Break in your shoes beforehand or choose footwear that you can walk and stand in comfortably.
5. Trendy Styles That Don’t Reflect You
Engagement photos are timeless keepsakes. Avoid clothes that you might look back on and think, “What was I wearing?” Stick with classic or meaningful pieces that will age well.
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Final Tips
• Bring a second outfit! Sometimes a quick change adds variety and lets you show two different sides of your style.
• Consider your partner’s outfit when planning yours so you both look cohesive.
• If you’re unsure, send me a photo of your outfit ideas—I’m happy to help you decide what will look best on camera!
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Your engagement session is all about capturing the love you share — your clothes are just one part of the story. When you dress thoughtfully, you’ll feel confident and natural, making your photos even more stunning.
Ready to book your session or have questions about outfit choices? I’m here to help — let’s create beautiful memories together!